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Jen St. Germain's avatar

Wise words from a wonderful woman. It's a challenge to stay true to your heart. Thanks for the reminder to stay true to my heart. ❤️❤️❤️

Mesa Fama's avatar

So very much so. Glad I could help 🫂🩵🩵🩵

Heidi White's avatar

Mesa, I broke down in tears with those words “Stay Tender.” The rolie polie bug. Oh to be one. It is the tender in us that allows us to see the beauty, the pain. To capture it in poems, writing our way through. It fucking hurts. But if we do not stay tender the world loses the best of us. Thank you for this reminder. I felt this piece in my soul.

Mesa Fama's avatar

I cried too. A great big sob escaped me as soon as I turned to that page.

And it would, wouldn’t it? Lose the best of us.

I’m so glad you needed this too. 🫂❤️‍🩹

Wild Lion*esses Pride by Jay's avatar

Thank you for that timely reminder Mesa, I needed that today first thing in the morning. Your words teared me up in a good way. I so appreciate you. xo Jay

Mesa Fama's avatar

You’re welcome, friend. 🩵🩵 Right back at you. 🩵

kaylen alexandra's avatar

What a beautiful message from SOUL. Thank you for sharing the tenderness with us.

Mesa Fama's avatar

🩵🩵🩵🩵🩵

Bonnie Solomon's avatar

Thank you for the heart cloud. I needed it. ❤️

Mesa Fama's avatar

You’re welcome my friend. And me too. 🫂🩵

Gregg Kaloust's avatar

Staying tender is the way. Curling yourself around the pain keeps it in. It calcifies. Encrusts. We become smaller, scareder, more alone. Grow your heart around it, until your heart is big enough to hold it all. All tender. Not easy, not fun, but necessary. The fetal position is not an embrace.

Mesa Fama's avatar

Thank you, Gregg. So very true.

Shaista Ali's avatar

You are your best when beautifully tender. The walls, an illusory promise as you say, never feel as good. The clouds - wonderful reminder to look up.

Mesa Fama's avatar

I’m so glad I followed that nudge to go outside! A bright spot today. 🩵🩵

Jo Ollila's avatar

Such a lovely, gentle reminder that’s it’s not just okay to be tender-hearted, it’s necessary. Essential even. I often berate myself for not being as tough as I once thought I was. There was a time I could keep almost anyone and anything “out”. Now I let everything in. I thought it was a design flaw but perhaps it’s a design flow, meant to help me be connected with all that is offered. Thank you for this. Can’t wait to get my heart (and hands) on a copy of Meg’s book. 💗

Mesa Fama's avatar

Absolutely essential. That’s how it feels now. Such a great way to put it, Jo. Thank you. 🩵

I hope you love her book too!!

Jo Ollila's avatar

Just ordered it from Barnes and Noble! Sooooo excited!

Mesa Fama's avatar

YAYYYY!!!

Mike Kane's avatar

You write so well and your words are inspirational, or comforting, or create inward thinking for the reader.

Mesa Fama's avatar

Thank you so much, Mike. 🩵🩵🩵